The clitoris is the indisputable powerhouse where female orgasm is concerned. Compared to the penis, the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings and has the enviable ability to produce multiples orgasms – provided you know what to do and how to handle it. With this in mind, I urge you to read on for informative tips on how to give your partner multiple orgasms.
Chivalry is not lost guys.., so be a true gentleman and postpone your pleasure for that of your partner’s first! In general, most women need a reasonable amount of foreplay in order to achieve a satisfactory climax. And the clitoris is extremely sensitive and needs to be properly prepped for serious stimulation. So if you want to give your partner multiple orgasms you know what you have to do – aim for at least 20 minutes of foreplay. You’ll find that a little old-fashioned chivalry goes a long way in the bedroom!
Familiarize and Learn Your Way Around
To become a master of providing multiple orgasms, you’ll need to familiarize your way around your partner’s nether regions. From the tip of the clitoris to the outer-laying labia; identify your partners pleasure points and find out how she likes to be stimulated in each spot.
Don’t forget your digits when trying to get your partner wobbly in the knees. They are an excellent tool for the job at hand. Begin by stroking your fingertips over her outer labia and exploring the soft and gentle areas between the legs and labia. Then move to more targeted stimulation; using the pad of your finger, move to the area just above the clitoral hood. Move your fingers in a circular motion or flutter back and forth. Build this up slowly. As you slip a finger inside of her, continue to use your thumb to stimulate the clitoris and with the inserted finger make a ‘come-here’ gesture, this will bend your finger towards the frontal wall of the vagina and stimulate the G-spot.
Where the saying goes, that ‘the pen is mightier that the sword’, the tongue is this case is more appropriate and ‘going-down’ on your partner between her thighs is one of the most reliable methods of inducing multiple orgasms. Explore your partner’s vulva with loving kisses and then focus your attention on her clitoris, again try circular motions, or move your tongue up and down. Experiment with gradual increment of pressures while asking your partner what feels better for her. It is imperative that you stimulate your partner rhythmically in order give her multiple mind-blowing orgasms.
Assume the Position
In order to give your partner multiple orgasms during intercourse, you must remember not to neglect paying close attention to her clitoris. Maintain a constant contact between the clitoral area with the base of your penis during penetration or press your thumb against it and flick it from side to side as you thrust. The most sensitive part of the vagina is the outer third, so keep your thrusts shallow. Control the rhythm and pace of your movements and linger in the entrance. Get this right and your partner will soon be writhing around in ecstasy.
For women the most satisfying orgasms are the ones that combine clitoral and G-spot stimulation. So focus simultaneously on stimulating these sweet spots, use tongue-fingers, penis-fingers, tongue-vibrator, or fingers-vibrator whatever works best for you and your partner.
There are multiple ways for women to have multiple orgasms. Take the time to practice these techniques and enjoy the exhilarating experience of watching your partner climax multiple times.
Remember that it may take time for the first orgasm to come, but once a woman has reached her peak of arousal it’s much easier to get back there again and again and again!